A father, Wilbur Hawke, talks of his experience with his son, Cayman. In a reversal of roles, Wilbur became the primary care giver when Cayman developed disabilities. He talks of his thirst for information and resources and the family's struggle with regard to Cayman's education. This lead to Wilbur becoming a committed advocate and has seen Cayman successfully and happily included in his local school community. Keywords: Families, Advocacy, Inclusion